VB, i appreciate your efforts to police this forum and we all can't assume that each person will "play nice".
what i've noticed on forums, email and chat is that we all tend to say things that we normally wouldn't say to someone if we were face-to-face. it tends to give false confidence and removes the human (decency?) element when you aren't in the presence of a warm body.
and as VB has mentioned, humor/sarcasm usually doesn't translate as we intend it when in text or emoticon mode.
i should do my PhD thesis on this topic
