I have a slightly different take on what it means "taking advantage" of the seller.
If you go to an antique show, a flea market, etc., there are prices on the item or you ask the seller what their best price is. The SELLER are the ones setting the price and it is up to them to have done their homework, research, etc. to determine the price of the item. However, on the other hand, if I'm set up a show and a dealer comes over to me and asks me for the value of a glove then I let them know what they have, give them a value range and make a fair offer if I'm interested. I'm not absolving the seller on eBay either - they are partial to blame because they are happy with what they are getting when in reality, if they let the auction run to fruition, their profit margin would in most cases be larger.
The difference I see, with having someone make a offer to end an auction is that the buyer is trying to circumvent the auction so they can get a deal. Is this wrong? Well, it depends on your mindset. Yes, I have a problem with it and so do others. Do some people find it acceptable to do this? Absolutely. Does that make them bad people? No, not at all - they just may be fans of Machiavelli.

I understand the business aspect and the capitalistic aspect, it's just something I choose not to participate in. It's going to continue to happen and that is just the way it is.
As for the Pep Young, I chose to sell it as a Buy It Now because I needed money for another purchase. I knew the value, determined the price and let the buyers decide if they wanted it or not. Is it fair that not everyone saw it? Well, the early bird gets the worm and it had been listed on my website for a year. But the difference is, I CHOSE for it to be a buy it now, I wasn't coerced or asked to make a deal off eBay to avoid fees, etc.
You're welcome to your opinion that this is no different than asking someone to end an auction as a buy it now. I understand your view point and see where you are coming from, I just don't agree with the practice. An auction is an auction, a sale is a sale - to me they are two distinct things and have different rules.
By the way, if anyone is looking for a high quality Rixpey, I have one on my site.
